Do
not be one of them.
There are greater things than a satisfied ambition, and a clean, happy,
united married life is one.
To Mrs. Charles Gordon
_Concerning Maternity_
I have tried to imagine myself in your place, as you requested, before
answering your letter.
To be the mother of two children, and to know that a third may be added
before the fifth anniversary of your wedding, is for the most maternal
of women a situation requiring rare patience and much philosophy.
I know that your strength is depleted, that you are nervously unstrung,
and I can understand your despondent state of mind.
It seems to you that all romance and sentiment in life is being
sacrificed to breeding the species. You feel that you have some personal
privileges as a wife and a woman, not less than a mother.
Like yourself, I do not believe woman's only mission in life to be the
production of offspring, yet I consider motherhood the highest privilege
accorded her who has for it the right physical and moral qualities.
Only strong, sensible, and healthy women should become mothers, and it
is a mistake for even such as they to be kept constantly in that
occupation.
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